GIRLS, SEX AND THE CITY

GIRLS, SEX AND THE CITY(2)

The many issues involved in the topical discussion of sex portray one motion in a bewildering multiplicity of milieu. From the conservative religious perspective to the slack freelance outlook of everyday people; the objective approach of this analysis is devoid of ethical standards of appraisal.

RELATIONSHIP – Sex is, generally, a presumed outcome of relationship, otherwise it is commercial. In religion it is the necessary incidence of marriage to consummate it. Relationships are based on trust; thus sex eschews infidelity. Over time, the harmony of souls produces one musical flesh. Interferences can produce metallic notes are rap strains.

PLEASURE – The common impression is that sex is God’s gift to man as reward for union. This, however, raises problems of the types of union approved of by Him. May couple consent to engage in unnatural sex? No scientific proof is needed to establish the efficacy of pleasure in sex. The issue is should the ‘delight’ be engineered for ‘fun’ as an end, or should the sensibilities enjoyed be a means to an end – procreation.

FERTILITY – The design of sex as merely a machinery of production would incriminate many who have no delight in making seed. Stone-age mentality. The question is, are couples not at liberty to decide on the use of their lives and size of their families? Indeed it is poor logic to say, ‘as was bestowed on you so you ought to endow another with life.’ Life hinges on a sequence of decisions made; there have been kids that terminated marriages, or worse still, shortened the lives of their parents.

SECRECY – One hallmark of maturity is the ability to hold in reserve certain matters marked ‘only you.’ The temptation to belong pulls the weak to divulge matters retrieved from an inner degree of separation. This ‘sin of Saul’ that makes the ‘parroter’ small in his own eye is mock humility and debases the one betrayed in trust. Values between two are inherent in mutual ‘understanding’ and image, which are not extrinsic.

TYPE – A mate to qualify for sex ought to be of one’s type to evince taste. The world is full of sick characters. A random tester skirts and trousers is sure sign of one. He fills his flesh with bad electricity. Electromagnetism in humans is an undiscovered area that leaves people in ignorance of problems in health and business. Contrary to popular view type relates in no way to class. Two from different cadres of lives may belong.

STATUS – Position, authority and power are strong lines of attraction along which persons are drawn to associate naturally. This in no way nullifies the possibility of excellent partners outside one’s class of peers, however rarely they come without problems. Once decided on a partner of humble estate, one unequivocally assents to descend from his high horse. A further air of superiority will be condescending and unacceptable.

MATURITY – To become a man takes more than a barrel chest and deep drawl. Financial foresight is all about love as females see men as ‘walking-wallets’: no romance without finance. ‘what have you done for me lately’. Perform and shut up: a talkative is wrong number.

PROWESS – (1) Economic prowess defines manhood before all considerations. Pay the piper and dictate. When the music fails to charm the serpent, it just bites.
(2) A one-minute-man should sooner apply for sex change. I found out that a man who refrains from sex not by divine grace but by his might, or the lack, soon enough loses physical prowess…the poor get poorer. Young ladies feel safely drawn to attached men. Where the carcass is there the vultures gather.

MOTIVATION – Sex is the highest vehicle of adrenaline release. Aggressive inspiration is sourced and found in loved ones. Unfortunately, this virtue does not subsist in commercial sex. Indeed, the exact opposite of this blessing is the case. The ‘fake’ charge of comfort purchased poisons the cells to acidic discharge and keeps the infected victim coming back for more addictive ‘pre-paid sex.’

GRATIFICATION – Some couples conscientiously utilize sex as a token of reward for accomplishment achieved. In the movie ‘White Men Can’t Jump’, Wesley Snipes exploited successfully this resource to his benefit. It is, however, shortsighted and ill-advised. A union where the ‘red-light special’ is reserved for days a man gets paid is commercialized. A hubby should be well sexed always. Everyday is Christmas.

ASSAULT – In the combat movie, ‘Boys In Company C’ the troops of Tyrone Washington’s platoon were told in training: ‘Your penis is a weapon.’ Even in peace time, some Johns in vengeance cane close female affiliates of another. In ‘The Best Man,’ Harper thought his dick a mallet of Nemesis for the promiscuity of the Groom.

INTIMIDATION – Some persons in authority trade their amorous desires for gratification of their preys in need. The consideration that constitutes bargaining chip for offeror is his authority, the momentary enjoyment of which the subject/prey must pay for in electric charge.